The Dog Whisperer (Cesar Millan)

[3/24/24] I noticed that Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan is now on Sling Freestream (as well as on Freevee earlier).  Even better, most of the episode are available On Demand.  For some reason, there are actually 3 different Dog Whisperers to add to the Watchlist.   Right now, there are 98 episodes + 14 episodes + 65 episodes for a total of 177 episodes.  There were a total of 162 episodes.  So there must be some overlap.

[12/1/23]  Earlier this year (I noticed it on 5/31/23), Dog Whisperer was pulled from iTunes, meaning you could no longer purchase the episodes from them.  Itunes was the only place that was offering all the seasons of Dog Whisperer, though Amazon had some seasons available.  Now the only episode I see remaining for sale is one episode on Amazon.  This had been the only way to get seasons 6-9 and the second half of season 5.  The first four seasons and first half of season 5 are still available on DVD.   I bought seasons 1, 5, 6 on iTunes previously, so I'm missing seasons 7, 8, 9.

Not sure why it was pulled, but I read later the Cineverse secured has the rights and was supposed to launch an AVOD channel.  I found the article on 9/26/23, but the release is dated 8/16/23.  I installed the Cineverse app, but no sign of Dog Whisperer.

This morning, I took a look at the Cineverse app and Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan was there!  It shows on the top ribbon of channels, but when I click on it, it gets stuck on a spinning circle.

But when you search for it, it comes up and all 9 seasons are there!  Sometimes the show is featured prominently at the top when you start up the app and it works if you access it from there also.

No AVOD channel yet, but I vastly prefer the episodes to be available On Demand anyway.

[6/10/20] Cesar has some tips for new dog owners
[8/22/18] Sling TV teams up with the Dog Whisperer
[7/4/18] Cesar Millan: Illegal Immigrant to American Dream
[7/3/18] Cesar broke the rule

[6/10/18] Audible for dogs

[12/23/16] Becoming a Pack Leader of Dogs and Donkeys

[9/30/16] I was checking out Cesar 911 and see that Amazon says it stars Cesar Millan and Jason Willinger.  Who's Jason Willinger?  He's the narrator.

Actually, I didn't like the narration of Cesar 911 as I preferred the narrator for Dog Whisperer.  (Who is apparently Phil Terrence.)  But now I've gotten use to Willinger.  (Though I still prefer Terrence since he was the first.)  Compare them here.

[8/27/16] Cesar's facebook post links to this 2002 Los Angeles Times article which might be the first article written about him.  I previously had found a 2004 article (see 10/9/09 below).  [OK, I'll finally update the date of this post.  It was originally posted on 10/24/05 9:24 PM.  It's now 7:17 AM]

[4/25/16] Cesar announces engagement to Jahira

[7/2/15] Calvin Millan gets his own show called Mutt & Stuff

[4/3/15] AOL Build: Cesar Millan

[4/2/15] Behind The Brand interview (full interview, see also 6/22/13 below)

[2/27/15] Cesar on WWHL

[2/26/15] How Dogs Taught Cesar Millan About Life

[2/24/15] Cesar Millan on the Steve Harvey Show

[8/5/14] Cesar sneaks up on Dr. Pol

[7/23/14] One of Cesar's client dogs bites neighbor

[4/6/14] Cesar tells his story to NPR

[2/16/14]  Remembering Daddy

[2/12/14] Cesar Millan Foundation hits seven years

[11/6/13] Andrea Arden reads cesarsway.com

[9/27/13] Cesar greets fans at LAX

[9/25/13] Emery Sumner Productions and Melissa Jo Peltier sue MPH Entertainment.  [Jim Milio in the good old days]

[9/17/13] Cesar filiming Love My Bully special

[8/31/13] Fergie and Josh Duhamel call on Cesar

[7/5/13] Cesar responds to criticisms from the Alan Titchmarsh show.

[7/5/13] Googling Dog Whisperer One Mean Tucker brings up this anti-Cesar thread at Shiba Inu forum.  Lots of negative energy here.  All I will say is that none (or very few) of the critics can do what Cesar can do.  Actually a lot of his criticized techniques you see on TV require a high level of physical skill and timing.  So it's probably less dangerous to do more conventional (positive-only) techniques.

[6/26/13] Junior's Tale

[6/22/13] Cesar Millan: Behind the Brand

[6/13/13] Cesar interview on Brian Williams Rock Center

[5/17/13] Tshss'ing Brian

[4/1/13] Leader of the Pachyderm

[3/15/13] Cesar on The View (Sherri Shepard's dog Ashley)

[2/9/13] Men's Journal article: Rescuing Cesar (long)

[1/29/13] Cesar and Shorty (photo)

[1/15/13] Cesar on omg! insider

[1/9/13] Cesar on Today Show (KL&Hoda)

[12/19/12] Cesar talks to The Big Issue

[11/24/12] Cesar gets his exercise

[11/19/12] You could do worse than Cesar

[11/18/12] Cesar hopes sharing struggles will help others

[11/16/12] Cesar bouncing back from suicide attempt

[11/16/12] Cesar Millan: The Real Story

[11/1/12] Cesar on Anderson Live

How Dogs See The World (CNN video, 11/19/10)

[10/31/12] Alan Titchmarsh interview with Cesar Millan

[10/17/12] Wall Street Journal interview: fear of dogs

[10/10/12] Cesar's new book: Short Guide to a Happy Dog

[10/9/12] Cesar on Late Night with Jimmy Fallon (NGW biopic to air November 25, trailer)

[10/1/12] Cesar on Today Show (10/6/09)

[9/27/12] Cesar revisits his first home when he came to America

[9/14/12] Cesar on KTLA

[8/10/12] Cesar at the Playboy Mansion

Nat Geo Wild orders biopic Cesar Millan: Pack Leader

Dogs Keep Celebrities Humble

Cesar talks with Kelsey Grammar about divorce

[7/29/12] Cesar Millan on dogs around the world

[7/7/12] More back and forth on Cesar

[7/7/12] Tales from the Set, Part 4 by Bob Aniello

[7/4/12] This site has some Dog Whisperer videos online (many of which are hosted by gorillavid).  Probably illegally so they'll likely be taken down eventually.

[6/20/12] Tales from the Set by Todd Henderson

[6/11/12] Steve Dale wishes Cesar well

[6/10/12] Cesar and Mango (probably would have been a good Dog Whisperer episode -- depending on how he did it I guess)

[5/31/12] Cesar Millan in the movie Beethoven's Big Break (saved me from buying the DVD).

[5/26/12] Cesar talks with Indulge Magazine

[4/24/12] Who is Cesar Millan? (by Cesar Millan)

[3/6/12] Cesar on adopting the right dog

[1/16/12] The rise and fall of Cesar Millan (judging from the comments, what fall?)

[10/16/11] Cesar's aha moment

[8/1/11] Cesar on Michael Vick

[7/27/11] positive reinforcement techniques of Cesar Millan

[7/10/11] Cesar on his new book Cesar's Rules

[7/9/11] Zak George says Cesar Millan is yesterday's trainer

[6/7/11] Sessions with Cesar, the new online dog coaching course from Cesar Millan [via The Teachings of Cesar Millan]

[4/28/11] Cesar Millan on Jeopardy

[3/27/11] Cesar meets Mark Zuckerberg

[3/6/11] Cesar Millan, future governor of California?

[2/13/11] Found this old post (googling for Jennifer Ng) with Sophia Yin calling Cesar's methods "outdated" (compared to modern veterinary practice). (But the last six comments, including CJ Anderson's, make sense to me.)

[1/30/11] Good Dog, Bad Dog. Found via Kathy Sdao's twitter (found via dogbehavstudy found via PamelaDennison). She says the article did a lousy job (probably because it wasn't anti-Cesar enough).

[12/2/10] I was playing around with Digital TV for PC on Arlene's computer and saw there is a Cesar Channel. On the internet it's on livestream or use this shortcut.

[10/4/10] Cesar on CBS Sunday Morning [via Peggy and Willie]

[7/19/10] Ah here it is. Redeeming Rover, the 2002 article that started it all (according to The Ultimate Episode Guide).

[11/2/09] I was looking to reply to Sheri about how to avoid stress and thought about Cesar's 6 Steps For a Calm Walk. That was the episode with Tipper (Cesar's 6 Step Plan for Calm Walks). And came across this uk article. The six steps by the way are (1) Take A Deep Breath (2) Stay Calm (3) Set The Pace (4) Pick Up Speed (5) Face Your Obstacles (6) Get In The Zone

I also see a bunch of articles on Cesar's site (which are bound to be positive since they are on Cesar's site after all). They go back to 2006.

[10/9/09] I'm thinking of buying the Dog Whisperer Ultimate Episode Guide (especially since I recently bought Dog Whisperer Season 3 at Blockbuster) plus I see on ebay for 3.99 and I have .80 ebay bucks. I found this review on the web which said that a 2002 Los Angeles Times article helped lead to the series. So I did a search for Cesar Millan articles at latimes.com which came up with this 2004 feature article. It's not the same article but it is interesting looking back at the viewpoint of a 5-year old article. [7/19/10 - edited 2004 article link]

More latimes article: The sad story of Cotton who regressed after Cesar left. The owner turned to canine disarming. (Cotton kind of looks like Kimo.)

Cesar Millan: Saint or cult leader?

Marley and Me could have used Cesar

[5/5/07] Cesar has a myspace page

Cesar on youtube

Cesar on NPR

Nightline story

Boston Globe story

[7/14/10] Early videos with Cesar on Oprah's show

[8/12/10] videos from seasons 1-3 from The Teachings of Cesar Millan facebook page [via (oddly enough) the +R/-P Resource WebPage (rogue's gallery) relayed by terry pride on dogbehaviorscience 7/9/10] [2/2/12 - now here]

American Humane says Cesar's methods are inhumane.

Cesar responds to critics

[10/13/06] The Dog Whisperer comes to Hawaii

[1/30/07] Ian Dunbar vs. Cesar Millan

[6/14/10] Another article on Ian Dunbar

[9/16/10] Ian Dunbar on his contribution to Cesar's book [8/23/18 - I think I have this link elsewhere in my blog too]

[6/6/06] Not everyone agrees with Cesar's methods

[1/26/09] Another page of criticism of the Dog Whisperer

[5/28/10] Another critic of Cesar (and a lot of defenders)

[5/31/10] Here's a mostly positive article in a Modern Dog, evidently a magazine that backs Positive Training. Most of the comments are positive. Most.

[6/1/10] More criticisms of Cesar's by professionals. Followed up by a lot of his defenders.

[6/10/10] Beyond Cesar Millan (a whole website containing everything negative they can dig up on Cesar's techniques)

[8/3/10] Actually it's not just Cesar that the POs are campaigning against. It seems that they are against any training that's not PO and Cesar just happens to be the most visible. So that means virtually every single trainer of ten or twenty years ago. Take a look at the one-star comments of Brian Kilcommons and Sarah Wilson's book (as opposed to the 135 five-star comments).

[6/11/10] Cesar discussed on Tracie Hochtner's Dog Talk show. Continued.

[7/1/10] Jean Donaldson against Cesar (or "force" training)

[7/14/10] Nicole Wilde compares/contrasts Dog Whisperer to Dog Town

[2/27/10] While googling Pat Miller [she has some books I might be interested in looking at], I came across her book review of Cesar's first book. That led to these articles at 4pawsuniversity, which is apparently anti-Cesar, glancing at a couple of the articles. I'm still a fan, but these articles seem to be written by "professionals" who seem to view Cesar as an an un-educated amateur.

[2/27/10] A partially broken link led to articles by Melissa Alexander who's a clicker trainer.

[1/30/07] Malcolm Gladwell's article

[6/9/10] Gladwell's article became the title of his newest book What The Dog Saw which are a collection of articles from the New Yorker. (Why why not just read them online for free?)

[12/17/12] What The Dog Saw available online from the Ukraine

[7/14/10] Mark Derr critique and some responses plus a long response by terrierman

[7/19/10] Terry Pride of dogbehaviorscience passes down this article quoting Stanley Coren, Jean Donaldson, Ian Dunbar all against Cesar. [Nothing new, just take a glance at beyondcesarmillan] For some reason, terry seems to have something personal against Cesar. I count 28 comments. Terry is the most recent. FWIW, counting up the comments I see 5 against Cesar and 17 for. (Put me in the for category. It's theory vs. common sense. Then again I believe in magic.)

Coincidentally terry's post was followed by this one "I just wanted to update those who when I was a member before said, "How's that going for you?" in how I handled my dog. Since I got physical with his punishment he hasn't bit anyone. Also, since then he went to bite my boyfriend while my boyfriend was disciplining him, and he stopped himself before he bit my boyfriend. So how is this working out for me? WONDERFULLY! He hasn't dared bite a person since."

[Obviously I'm not advocating punishment. And neither does Cesar for that matter.]

[10/24/05] Generations of children are familiar with "Lassie," but Cesar Millan, who grew up in Mexico, was particularly affected by reruns of the beloved TV series about the heroic collie and her human sidekick, Jeff. [Wasn't the boy named Timmy?]

[10/11/05 - article found 8/23/18] Dog Whisperer seminar at Hawaii Convention Center

[transplanted from my original blog 1/26/09]

The Art of Racing in the Rain

Not everyone thought The Art of Racing in the Rain -- a story about a family, narrated by a wise and witty dog who yearns to be human -- was a great concept.  When author Garth Stein sent his manuscript to his agent, the agent promptly called him and said, "This is not a good idea; it's a gimmick.  It's not even a good gimmick.  Nobody writes a book narrated by a dog.  Sorry.  Write something I can sell."

To which Stein, confident in his work, replied, "I have an idea.  How about you're fired."

"The Art of Racing in the Rain was very straightforward," says Stein, meeting with the Connection at a small cafe near Seattle.  "It came almost in a magical way.  I wrote the first draft in four months."

At the time he was writing the book, he had rented space from a pizzeria near his home in Seattle.  "I just had a desk and it was open to the public, and in the afternoons I'd be working on a scene and crying and listening to music on my earphones.  [The owners would] be having a meeting with vendors and the vendors would be looking over ... and they'd say, 'What's with that guy?'" he recalls.  "The owners would say, 'He's a writer; dont pay attention to him.'"

Stein observes, "I think a writer has to be emotionally moved by the work; otherwise, how do you expect a reader to get emotionally [involved]?"

The Art of Racing in the Rain went on to spend more than three years on the New York Times best-seller list, selling more than 4 million copies in 32 languages, and has spawned a major motion picture opening this month.

Asked why he thinks the book has been so successful, Stein says, "I think the voice of Enzo is very compelling.  It's a relatively common story of a family where there's tragedy that happens, and how do we work our way out of that?  But the fact that it's being told from Enzo's point of view makes people want to hear what he has to say.  There's wisdom in there -- Enzo's wisdom.  If a person were to say some of those things, I'm sure people would roll their eyes a lot and say, 'Oh, it's a self-help book.' So in a weird way, it's a self-help book in disguise, maybe."

In the movie, Enzo is a golden retriever, but his breed was not actually identified in the book.  "I deliberately left it vague, because I knew people wanted to picture their own dog," explains Stein.  "So in the book he says, 'I'm half water dog on my mother's side,' and he's not quite sure who his sire is."

One of the driving factors in Enzo's narrative is his desire to be reincarnated as a human.  Stein got that idea from a documentary he watched on dogs in Mongolia, who are vital, important members of the family.  He says, "Those people were so intimately involved with dogs as part of their lives, they believe that that dog's going to be born tomorrow in your family.  That next kid is going to be your dog's spirit come back to be with you."

The Art of Racing in the Rain is more than a book; it's a cathartic experience.  You'll laugh and you'll cry -- a lot -- but in the end they will be tears of joy for a life-affirming experience.

***

A dog speaks

The Art of Racing in the Rain will make you laugh and cry

by Steve Fisher

-- This article appeared in the August 2019 Costco Connection.  Alas, that issue is no longer available online, so I typed it in.

pet's last wishes

“Pets, it turns out, also have last wishes before they die, but only known by veterinarians who put old and sick animals to sleep. Twitter user Jesse Dietrich asked a vet what was the most difficult part of his job.

The specialist answered without hesitation that it was the hardest for him to see how old or sick animals look for their owners with the eyes of their owners before going to sleep. The fact is that 90 % of owners don't want to be in a room with a dying animal. People leave so that they don't see their pet leave. But they don't realize that it's in these last moments of life that their pet needs them most.

Veterinarians ask the owners to be close to the animals until the very end. ′′It's inevitable that they die before you. Don't forget that you were the center of their life. Maybe they were just a part of you. But they are also your family. No matter how hard it is, don't leave them.

Dont let them die in a room with a stranger in a place they dont like. It is very painful for veterinarians to see how pets cannot find their owner during the last minutes of their life. They dont understand why the owner left them. After all, they needed their owner’s consolation.

Veterinarians do everything possible to ensure that animals are not so scared, but they are completely strangers to them. Don't be a coward because it's too painful for you. Think about the pet. Endure this pain for the sake of their sake. Be with them until the end.”

- Tricia Mo’orea

Humane Society to open second Oahu location

The Hawaiian Humane Society is opening its second facility — the Kosasa Family Campus at Ho‘opili — on Saturday in Ewa Beach with a grand opening celebration.

After the celebration, families and visitors are welcome to stay and visit with adoptable pets.

The new campus, built at a cost of $30 million on 5 acres donated by D.R. Horton Hawaii, offers a new admissions center, spay and neuter clinic, three dog pavilions, two cat pavilions, a small- animal pavilion, meet-and-greet areas, walkways, and plenty of grassy, open space.

“The Hawaiian Humane Society has always provided services island-wide,” said HHS President and CEO Anna Neubauer in a news release, “but this expansion — the single largest in Hawaiian Humane history — will drastically increase resource accessibility for central and west Oahu residents, support collaboration with new stakeholders and create better outcomes for animals in need.”

She noted that 2 of every 3 West Oahu households report owning a pet, which is the highest percentage on the island.

The new campus — which sits on double the space of the 2.5-acre Moiliili campus — was designed by the Pacific Asia Design Group in consultation with Animal Arts, animal care architecture experts, and constructed by Allied Builders.

It opens about two years after a groundbreaking and blessing ceremony held in May 2021, and after more than a decade of research, planning and a capital campaign to raise $30 million.

Since it was built from the ground up, the Humane Society was able to incorporate design features in accordance with shelter best practices, spokesperson Brandy Shimabukuro said.

That includes open-air circulation, quieter, soft-close kennels, dog kennels with individual drainage, along with play yards and spaces for animal enrichment and exercise — all of which are designed to minimize stress and risk of disease transmission.

The Ginny Tiu Pet Kokua Center will offer resources, including a pet food bank, to help keep pets with their families.

The facility is also outfitted with solar panels, solar tubes, which are ideal for cats who prefer sunshine while in recovery, and a parking lot with several electric vehicle chargers.

There is also a public dog park, which is expected to open sometime in the fall.

“This space is intended to be really inviting,” Shimabu­kuro said. “We want people to come by, and it’s not a transactional experience where you’re just coming to adopt and then you leave. We want this to be a space that people come to with their families and they want to spend the day here.”

The new campus opens at a time when shelters statewide — and nationwide — are at overcapacity as the number of animal adoptions slow and surrenders grow due to economic struggles.

Shimabukuro said many of the society’s rescue partners such as Paws of Hawaii, the Fur Angel Foundation and Hawaii Dog Foundation have found adoptions slowing down.

Even with a recent “Empty the Shelters” event in May featuring waived and reduced adoption fees, the Humane Society continues to be at overcapacity as more people surrender their animals.

There are still more than 100 dogs and dozens of cats available for adoption — and it’s kitten season.

“We’ve been overcapacity almost consistently since October,” Shimabukuro said. “In the history of Hawaiian Humane, we’ve never seen it consistently this bad. Maui is experiencing the same, Kauai is experiencing the same, Hawaii island is experiencing the same. It is nationwide, but especially here in Hawaii, because our cost of living is so high, coupled with inflation.”

Having the Ewa Beach campus will help alleviate the overcapacity at the Moiliili campus, and is ideal to serve the West Oahu community, she said, because residents have often mentioned how difficult it is to drive to town when they have found a lost pet or stray cat.

Both campuses have the capacity to hold about 350 to 400 animals each.

As of Wednesday, about 30 dogs had been transferred to Ho‘opili from the Moiliili campus, according to Shimabukuro, and cats were on the way.

Dogs, cats and other animals will be brought over in phases, but adoptions will be available at the new campus starting Saturday.

Also, the campus will open up in phases as it continues to hire, so not all serv­ices will be available right away. The spay-neuter center is expected to open in the next few weeks. Admissions services, including lost and found, will be offered to the public later this summer.

HAWAIIAN HUMANE SOCIETY KOSASA FAMILY CAMPUS AT HO‘OPILI

>> What: Grand opening celebration, with a blessing, keiki interactive area, food trucks, music and more.

>> When: 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday

>> Where: 91-1945 Fort Weaver Road (corner of Fort Weaver/Old Fort Weaver roads)

The campus will be open 11 a.m.-7 p.m. Wednesday to Sunday. Visit hawaiianhumane.org for information.

Ryan Stewart, dog walker

After 20 years in the dog-walking business, Ryan Stewart says he isn’t just a dog person — he sees himself as one of the pack.

Stewart started his New York side hustle, Ryan for Dogs, in 2002 to earn money between sparse acting gigs. Now, it’s his full-time job: He makes roughly $60 per hour walking three to five pups at a time. Guaranteed work by a reputation built over multiple decades, Stewart makes up to $120,000 per year, according to documents reviewed by CNBC Make It.

“I don’t even think of myself as loving dogs, it’s just that they’re almost like an extension,” Stewart tells CNBC Make It. “I don’t love my right hand, you know? It’s just there.”

Ryan Stewart started dog-walking as a side hustle in 2002. Now, he makes up to $120,000 per year walking in New York City.

Stewart, who’s in his early 40s, says the best part of his job is that “without a college degree, I’ve managed to make six figures a year ... doing something I love.” He works roughly 36 hours per week, spread across six days, he says — noting that dogs require constant attention, making his six-hour shifts often feel demanding.

“A good dog walker is focused and attentive, because you want to prevent your dog from getting hurt,” Stewart says. “You have to watch traffic. You have to watch the dogs [so they] don’t fight each other. It’s not one of those [jobs] that you can put on some AirPods and listen to music while you’re doing it.”

puppy dog eyes explained

If you've ever wondered how your pooch flashes those "puppy dog eyes" that melt your heart, a new study may provide some answers.

The researchers identified certain muscle features that help dogs look so cute, and it suggests that thousands of years of selective breeding have contributed to their ability to use expressions to their advantage.

"Dogs are unique from other mammals in their reciprocated bond with humans which can be demonstrated though mutual gaze, something we do not observe between humans and other domesticated mammals such as horses or cats," said study senior author Anne Burrows.

She is a professor at Duquesne University School of Health Sciences, in Pittsburgh.

"Our preliminary findings provide a deeper understanding of the role facial expressions play in dog-human interactions and communication," Burrows said in a news release from the American Association for Anatomy.

Brandon McMillan

I actually became solely focused on dog training a little later in my career. My entire family were animal trainers so I was born into that environment, and when I was 19 I moved to California and started training animals.

I spent about 10 years training all sorts of animals for movies and TV, including the tiger in The Hangover. One of the companies I worked for mainly used breeder dogs. I lived next to a shelter and I started saying we should use more shelter dogs.

I convinced my boss and the first rescue dog was successfully trained, and then the next dog. Eventually all the dogs they worked with were rescue dogs. At that time, there were about 2 million dogs a year being euthanized because they weren't able to be re-homed. That number has gone down substantially, but it's still almost 700,000 per year.

When I realized the huge problem we have here in the U.S, I decided to quit the wild animal industry and started working only with dogs.

My first celebrity client was James Caan. Funnily enough, I often don't recognize the famous people whose dogs I train. I'd been talking with James Caan for an hour and a half discussing martial arts, which we're both interested in. Next thing I know, I'm leaving and he's arranging for me to start training his dog the following week. Only after I left did I realize who he was! I did the same thing with Ellen Degeneres, Rod Stewart and Don Cheadle, the list goes on really.

Whenever I train anyones dog I make sure it gets 100 percent of my focus. The first time I met Andy Cohen was when I appeared on Watch What Happens Live.

Andy talked with me afterwards and told me he had just adopted a great dog and wanted to make sure he received the best training possible. I worked with Wacha for about five years, every time I was in New York City.

I also trained Hugh Hefner's dogs at the Playboy Mansion. Hef's assistants called me up and said that his King Charles Spaniel, Charlie, was not coming when they called.

I went to the Playboy Mansion and they told me that the dog wasn't listening to a word they said. I checked Charlie and realized something was a little off. Charlie wandered off and I started calling him, but he wasn't listening. He'd been trained for recall so I decided to have a pause and let him sleep.

He took a nap and in the meantime, I asked where their music room was. They pulled me out some cymbals and I told them we would do a little test. Charlie was fast asleep, so I took the cymbals and I softly struck them together. He didn't wake up—their dog was deaf. So they then wanted me to test if their other puppy, Lady, was deaf too. I took the cymbals to where she was sleeping and tried the same trick, but even softer. Well, the puppy woke up!

When it comes to breeds celebrities like; French Bulldogs are very popular. But they are very difficult to train. I always say there are four variables when you train a dog: breed, age, history and imprinted DNA.

Border Collies and German Shepherds are really easy to train, but French Bulldogs and Pekingese dogs are extremely difficult to train. Because the first two types were bred for some type of work, and the latter two were not. Age is a big thing too, you can't train a dog too young. Five to six months is the sweet spot for training.

History is important, even if you have a rescue, because history has carved out your dog's personality. Finally, every animal has imprinted DNA. Some are born very high energy and some are born very calm. Some are outgoing and some are shy. And they are born like that, these are imprinted genetics.

What I find when it comes to celebrities and breeds is that celebrities are divided pretty much right down the middle. They either love their breeds, such as French Bulldogs and Chihuahuas, or they really believe in the shelter and rescue system.

But every dog can be trained to the same level of obedience with my "7 Common Commands", the response time will just be different. Whether it's the difference between breeds and even with rescue dogs.

I teach the "7 Common Commands"—such as sit, stay and down—because they are commands you will be using on a daily basis, but also because less is more in the dog world.

But if I could take one command of all the "7 Common Commands" I teach, the most vital would be "down". Control is the cornerstone of training and the "down" command is one of the most important control commands. It works because with "down" you don't need "sit". Your dog is already staying, it's controlled, you don't have to say "no" because it's already lying down. If you can teach your dog "down" then in a situation where someone comes to the door and you have a high energy dog, you just need to say "down."

It's the first command I really focus on with all my celebrity client's dogs.

Whether you are a celebrity or not, the reason people still hire me is because I have a reputation of restoring peace and order in a house that's chaotic. They might have people coming in and out. If their dogs are really high energy or untrained, the dogs need to learn that every time a new person comes into the house they have to be controlled.

The first step for training any dog is trust. I can gain the trust of some dogs in one session, and I've had other dogs that have taken weeks and months. It took my own Chihuahua years to trust me because she'd come from an abusive situation, but we got there.

I always say, dog training happens at the speed of life not the speed of light.

Brandon McMillan is an Emmy Award-winning master animal trainer and host of the CBS show "Lucky Dog". Brandon has collaborated with MasterClass for a new class on dog training, which covers skills from obedience to house training skills, building trust and executing common commands. His MasterClass joins the 85+ classes taught by world-renowned instructors on culinary arts, photography, writing, performance, and much more. Learn more about his class at MasterClass.com.

All views expressed in this piece are the writer's own.

As told to Jenny Haward.  [story featured on my Google Pixel 3aXL]

How to talk to your dog

Dogs are special. Every dog owner knows that. And most dog owners feel their dog understands every word they say and every move they make. Research over the last two decades shows dogs really can understand human communication in ways no other species can. But a new study confirms that if you want to train your new puppy, you should be speaking to it in a certain way to maximise the chances that it follows what you’re saying.

There is already quite a lot of research evidence showing that the way we communicate to dogs is different from the way we communicate to other humans. When we talk to dogs, we use what is called “dog directed speech”. This means we change the structure of our sentences, shortening and simplifying them. We also tend to speak with a higher pitch in our voices. We also do this when we are not sure we are understood or when talking to very young infants.

A new study has shown we use an even higher pitch when talking to puppies, and that this tactic really does help the animals to pay attention more. The research, published in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society B, showed that talking to puppies using dog-directed speech makes them react and attend more to their human instructor than regular speech.

To test this, the researchers use so-called “play back” experiments. They made recordings of humans repeating the phrase “Hi! Hello cutie! Who’s a good boy? Come here! Good boy! Yes! Come here sweetie pie! What a good boy!”. Each time, the speaker was asked to look at photos of either puppies, adult dogs, old dogs or at no photos. Analysing the recordings showed the volunteers did change how they spoke to different aged dogs.

The researchers then played the recordings back to several puppies and adult dogs and recorded the animals’ behaviour in response. They found the puppies responded more strongly to the recordings made while the speakers looked at pictures of dogs (the dog-directed speech).

The study didn’t find the same effect applied for adult dogs. But other studies that recorded dogs’ reactions to the human voice in live interactions, including work I have done, have suggested dog-directed speech can be useful for communicating with canines of any age.

Following the point

It’s also been proven (and most dog-owners will tell you) that we can communicate with dogs through physical gestures. From puppy age on, dogs respond to human gestures, such as pointing, in ways other species can not. The test is very simple. Place two identical cups covering small pieces of food in front of your dog, making sure it cannot see the food and doesn’t have any information about the contents of the cups. Now point to one of the two cups while establishing eye contact with your dog. Your dog will follow your gesture to the cup you pointed to and explore the cup, expecting to find something underneath.

This is because your dog understands that your action is an attempt to communicate. This is fascinating because not even human’s closest living relatives, chimpanzees, seem to understand that humans communicate intent in this situation. Nor do wolves – dog’s closest living relatives – even if they are raised like dogs in a human environment.

[how to teach dogs to follow a finger point]

This has led to the idea that dogs’ skills and behaviours in this area are actually adaptations to the human environment. That means living in close contact with humans for over 30,000 years has led dogs to evolve communication skills that are effectively equal to those of human children.

But there are significant differences in how dogs understand our communication and how children do. The theory is that dogs, unlike children, view human pointing as some kind of mild command, telling them where to go, rather than a way of transferring information. When you point for a child, on the other hand, they will think you are informing them about something.

This ability of dogs to recognise “spatial directives” would be the perfect adaptation to life with humans. For example, dogs have been used for thousands of years as a kind of “social tool” to help with herding and hunting, when they had to be guided over a great distance by gestural instructions. The latest research affirms the idea that not only have dogs developed an ability to recognise gestures but also a special sensitivity to the human voice that helps them identify when they need to respond to what’s being said.

This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.

7 Things You Do That Your Dog Hates

From a dog’s POV, humans can be perplexing. Convinced that our dogs value the same sorts of affectionate gestures as we do, we kiss them, we hug them, we buy (and make them wear) little hats and dresses. It’s not too far-fetched to say that they’d pass on a lot of these things if given a choice.

Things You Do That Your Dog Hates

Here are a few things on most dogs’ “no thank-you” list—things they wish we wouldn’t do.

1. Pat Them On The Head.

It’s a gesture meant to convey affection, and many people love to do it. But patting our dogs on the head is not popular with them. Most of them dislike it and will move away to avoid it. They do usually enjoy having their heads—including their ears and the sides of their faces—smoothly stroked, which is more likely to make them happy, keep them near and cause them to lean in for more.

2. Hug Them.

Every time a dog trainer or canine behaviorist mentions that dogs don’t generally like being hugged, the pushback is incredible. Everyone is sure their dog loves to be hugged even if most dogs don’t, and they suspect most dogs actually do love it. Primates (the order to which we belong) are huggers, but canids, including dogs, don’t naturally engage in that behavior. While I sometimes feel like a wicked witch when I point this out to people, observation suggests it’s true. Dogs who are being hugged often display signs of stress, including tongue flicks, a tightly closed mouth, pulled-back ears, rigid facial muscles and/or a furrowed brow. Putting your arms around your dog’s neck and shoulders may feel like love to you, but to dogs, not so much.

3. Hoard The Ball During A Game Of Fetch.

Many of us tend to pick up the ball and hold it while we praise or pet our dog. We think we’re playing fetch, but our dogs think we’re hoarding the ball. They want it back, and they want it back now. Many dogs lose interest in fetch or fail to learn how fun it can be because of this human tendency to hold onto the ball instead of immediately throwing it. What they want us to do is to toss the ball the instant they drop it anywhere in our vicinity. This sounds simple, but it can be a struggle for many people.

4. Kiss Them.

Humans express love and affection with kisses, but kisses have no particular meaning to dogs. It is not a natural part of their repertoire. Dogs lick each other and will lick humans, too, and though we often call those “doggy kisses,” they’re different than human kisses. Putting your face right next to a dog’s face can be perceived by the dog as a threatening behavior. Some dogs find it scary, others simply find it annoying. It’s common for dogs who are being kissed to try to get away; to hold their ears back; or to exhibit signs of discomfort such as tongue-flicking, yawning, lowering the tail or displaying facial and body tension. Some dogs wrinkle their noses or even scamper off once released—another sign that—no matter how much they may love you—they don’t love being kissed.

5. Hold One Of Their Paws, Especially A Back Paw, When They’re Standing.

Dogs who’ve been consistently reinforced for shaking or giving a high-five may have good feelings about having you touch or hold their paws, but that usually only applies to brief contact while they’re sitting. What I’m talking about here is grabbing a dog’s paw when he’s standing, then holding onto it for a while. To most dogs, nothing good can come of that. It may make them feel unstable, and that’s no fun, or they may associate it with nail trims (also no fun) or having their muddy paws wiped down (not awful, but not a favorite either). Holding a dog’s back paw is often particularly poorly received. Most behaviorists agree that male dogs are, in general, more likely to take exception to having a paw held than are female dogs.

6. Use Citrus-Scented Products.

The majority of dogs dislike the smell of oranges, lemons, tangerines and grapefruit. That’s why those scents are used in products meant to deter dogs from chewing on things we would prefer they leave alone. Since the smell repels dogs, it’s kind to avoid products with that scent, including lotion, shampoo, air fresheners or candles. Yet, a small percentage of dogs aren’t averse to these smells. Find out if your dog is in this group by peeling a juicy orange so your hands are covered in a sticky mess, then offer your hands to your dog. If she turns or backs away, she (like most dogs) doesn’t care for the smell of citrus. If she licks your fingers, different story.

7. Dress Them.

The joy people take in dressing up their dogs is often in direct conflict with the distaste dogs have for the experience. Yes, dogs look adorable in just about every outfit under the sun, but very few dogs enjoy the process of being put into clothes and costumes. Lots of dogs tense up, displaying facial expressions and body language that clearly indicate their discomfort. Wearing clothes, especially cumbersome and constricting costumes, is a misery for many dogs. Through a careful process of conditioning, dogs can be taught to accept costumes or other clothes, and we can make it easier for them by choosing the least restrictive and most lightweight options, but avoiding it altogether would be the choice of almost all dogs. Many humans (including me!) can’t help but love the look of dogs dressed to the nines, but mostly, it’s better not to treat dogs like dolls.

It's Me or the Dog

[11/22/20] Victoria writes "How IMOTD Changed Me as a Dog Trainer"

[8/26/19] Victoria (or somebody) is now making available the early (pre-USA) episodes available on It's Me or the Dog youtube channel.  In addition to clips, they are also releasing full episodes.

So far I see 21 episodes available.  The first episode is Jimi & Duke.  The last episode (when I checked) was Dylan.

Wait, now I see more episodes have been released.  Zulu and Lotte.  And I missed the Baily (Crufts) episode.  So there's now a total of 24 episodes on the official full episode playlist.

The United States (aired on Animal Planet) episodes are available on Amazon Prime.  The first three seasons are available on Prime Video, but not the fourth season for some reason.  All four seasons are available on the Animal Planet app (apparently for free).  Season 1 is available on Pluto TV.

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[4/5/07] With the success of the Dog Whisperer, I now see that a couple of new shows about correcting dog behavior have appeared on Animal Planet:

Divine Canine. Besides being monks, they train dogs. They have a book called How to Be Your Dog's Best Friend: The Classic Training Manual for Dog Owners.

It's Me or The Dog. Instead of a guy from Mexico, it's a lady from England (Victoria Stilwell). Her book, naturally enough, is called It's Me or the Dog.

Here's one I haven't seen yet, Barking Mad, which deals not only with dogs but other animals as well.

I don't see that on this week, but I do see Good Dog U.

[transplanted from original blog, 1/26/09]

[3/17/10] I see Victoria (not just Cesar) gets less than positive reviews too.

[10/9/12] some training videos on youtube

puppy socialization (wait?)

Recently with all the new Covid puppies, the myth, and frankly, dangerous, outdated “advice” breeders, rescues and even vets are giving to new owners that puppies can’t go outside until all their vaccines are complete, has reared it ugly head again. (Note: I am not a vet, so perhaps there are rare cases when this applies.). Vets, rescues and breeders who are clinging to the outdated belief that dogs should be prevented from socialization until fully vaccinated are not keeping up with the current research, literature and recommendations from behavior professionals.

Looking at current position statements from organizations like AVSAB (American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior), who are the leaders on veterinary care and behavior, they are abundantly clear that this outdated belief has no place in current standards. Read their complete position statement here.

“The primary and most important time for puppy socialization is the first three months of life. For this reason, the American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior believes that it should be the *standard of care* for puppies to receive such socialization before they are fully vaccinated.”

The main point conveyed is puppies as young as 7 WEEKS OLD can begin socialization training, even in group classes, as long as they’ve had one round of vaccines and have been dewormed.  Puppies have a finite, time sensitive window for socialization – for learning the world, novelty, people and places are safe.  This is also the window they have to learn how to appropriately use their mouths and learn bite inhibition.  Once this window closes, it cannot be reopened.

“Veterinarians specializing in behavior recommend that owners take advantage of every safe opportunity to expose young puppies to the great variety of stimuli that they will experience in their lives.”

Behavioral issues, not infectious diseases, are the number one cause of death for dogs under three years of age. We need to shift the focus away from fear mongering that puppies will get sick or die if they go outside and instead focus on socialization as prevention for later behavioral issues, which is a much greater risk of dogs being surrendered or euthanized.

“Because the first three months are the period when sociability outweighs fear, this is the primary window of opportunity for puppies to adapt to new people, animals, and experiences. Incomplete or improper socialization during this important time can increase the risk of behavioral problems later in life including fear, avoidance, and/or aggression. Behavioral problems are the greatest threat to the owner-dog bond. In fact, behavioral problems are the number one cause of relinquishment to shelters.”

This doesn’t mean you should take your unvaccinated puppy to the dog park or a giant pet store where there have been hundreds of unknown, potentially unhealthy dogs traipsing through.  But you can make responsible choices, allowing your puppy to interact with healthy, known dogs, puppies on the same vaccine schedule and neighborhood walks.  Or you can always carry your puppy if you really don’t want feet on the ground.  If you wait until your puppy is full vaccinated, you’ve missed their critical socialization period. Opting to keep your puppy locked in your home, not being socialized during this critical window is the worst decision you can make for your puppy’s future behavioral health. 

-- Kate LaSala

Tank Twitter

What a happy dog can teach us about our own humanity

Twelve years ago I betrayed my husband. It was the best decision I ever made.

The betrayal came in the form of a 12-pound fluff ball named Tank. I got the dog in defiance of my husband’s declaration that our family was not getting a dog — not then, not ever. I adopted Tank behind my husband’s back, enlisting our daughters, then 11 and 13, as co-conspirators. Tank arrived, as I wrote at the time, as a pet accompli, too late for my husband to do anything about it.

“I can’t believe you did this,” he said, except for the expletive I have deleted, when he came home late from work to discover our newest family member. It took about 10 minutes, and as many face licks, for Jon to fall in love.

The rest of us already had, which was the point: Tank joined our family at a time when our lives were too chaotic to accommodate a dog but too stressed to be without one. None of us had ever had a dog before, but we understood, intuitively, that we needed the unconditional love that only a dog can provide.

Tank overperformed. At moments when our family was under stress, the one thing we could always agree on was that Tank was the best, the cutest dog ever. When we were in a better place, he remained at the center of our family unit, no matter how many shoes he destroyed. “Huggee!” we would yell, embracing, and Tank would come running to join. With him, we were a pack.

We lost Tank in the wee hours of Saturday morning — suddenly, unexpectedly, tragically. We stood outside the animal hospital, unable to enter because of COVID-19, holding one another and sobbing until we could say goodbye to our boy in the makeshift space in the parking garage. There is so much sadness in the world right now; there are so many worse and more consequential stories, and yet we are shattered. What we wouldn’t do to slip him one last morsel from the dinner table.

The reason I am writing is not Tank’s death but its aftermath. In the strain of the pandemic, in the heat of police shootings, the social fabric is fraying. You can hear it rip. If there was a communitarian, we’ll-getthrough- this-together ethos at the start of the lockdowns, it has been replaced by a my-way mentality. Thanks to President Donald Trump, mask-wearing has become political statement, not social responsibility.

We spent the summer in Wyoming, and driving home across the country (Tank was never happier than ensconced in the car for long stretches with his people), we encountered instance after instance — at the hotel in North Dakota, the restaurant in Minnesota where we stopped for takeout, the rest stop in Indiana — of behavior that was not only irresponsible but aggressively so.

When I asked a man at the rest stop — a rest stop whose doors proclaimed “Masks Required” — to wear a mask, he said I was free to do so for my health, but he chose not to. And when I pointed out that, actually, his mask-wearing protected me, and vice versa, it didn’t take long for him to start yelling about Joe Biden. I know: stupid, foolhardy me, to try to engage.

And when I tweeted about my experiences, the reaction was not exactly charitable. “Ruth apparently didn’t even end up testing positive after her trip,” wrote one person. “Too bad that she didn’t at least manage to add to the case count.” Nice. Sorry to disappoint.

I took to Twitter again, in the hours after Tank’s death, to share my grief. The platform that can be so ugly and so hate-filled responded this time with overwhelming love. From people I knew, from strangers, offering condolences and sharing their own sad experiences. It was an enormous, unexpected comfort. We looked at the pet pictures they posted and read the stories they shared of their own dog’s passing, and wept.

What does it say that an audience that can be so cruel and ugly can be so generous and compassionate? The more cynical interpretation is that we are a country that tends to care more about pets than people, and there is some unfortunate truth to that. I have a reporter friend who many years ago wrote a Christmas Day story about homeless people living under a bridge with their dogs. His voice mail was filled with offers of help — from people wanting to adopt the dogs.

But I think our capacity to love our pets speaks to a better side of human nature. Perhaps it takes a nonhuman to bring out the humanity in us, but that spark is still present. It requires careful kindling by leaders who summon our better angels; it can be snuffed out by those who fan the flames of hatred and discord.

We are Rest Stop Twitter, angry and vindictive, but we are also Tank Twitter, full of boundless affection, even for strangers. Tank didn’t see either — he saw humans to love, even if part of their attraction was that they might have treats.

If he could, Tank would lick all your faces. Every last one.

— Ruth Marcus writes for The Washington Post.

dogs with benefits

My friend, Jan, has spent the entire pandemic in lockdown in San Francisco, unable to touch another human being. It’s hard to imagine how difficult that must be. And yet she’s doing OK. One big reason: her dog, Maisie.

“This cottage would feel kind of bereft of life without Maisie padding around,” says Jan.

I’m sure Jan is not alone in feeling happy to have a dog. Many of us are relying more on our pets for comfort while we face the uncertainty of the pandemic—even those of us who have human roommates to keep us company, too. Research suggests that there’s something about our dogs that makes us feel less lonely and anxious, and can even keep us healthier.

What is that something? It’s hard to put a finger on, but hormones may play a role. Petting a dog has been shown to reduce cortisol (the stress hormone), for example, and caring for a dog releases oxytocin (the bonding hormone that calms us and increases our trust in others).

Here are some of the science-backed ways that our dogs can help us cope with difficult circumstances and stay well.

1. Dogs stave off loneliness

Many of us are feeling a bit lonelier than usual these days; sheltering-in-place and keeping our distance from others is hard for everyone, including introverts. Being without human touch is particularly difficult: People who are touch-deprived tend to feel more depressed, experience more pain, and even have poorer immunity. But having a pet around (including dogs or their cat rivals) can help prevent loneliness.

“I’m hugely grateful that I’ve had Maisie as my eight-pound, fluff-ball quarantine buddy,” says Jan. “She keeps me company whether I’m reading or gardening, and cracks me up regularly with her episodes of doggy silliness.”

Though the benefits of having a pet have been studied more among the elderly (who often have limited social contact), they likely apply to many more of us during COVID-19. After all, we all have less social contact than we’d normally have right now, and that’s got to be hard on our psyches.

Why do dogs help us with loneliness? It’s probably not an accident that dogs are often called “man’s best friend.” Many people feel that dogs are like family members (but without the baggage), providing unconditional love and easy companionship. Plus, many of us have the sense that our dog resonates with us emotionally—a notion that some science supports. We’re bound to feel less isolated with a soft, understanding, loving being around.

2. Dogs reduce stress and anxiety

Many of us have been super stressed and anxious during the pandemic. We don’t know when we will be able to move about freely again, our jobs may be compromised, and we’re worried about contracting the virus or passing it on to others. We also can’t do many of the things that usually help us manage stress better—like going to the gym or having dinner with a group of friends.

Luckily, dogs can help, as many studies have shown and experts attest. In one study, 48 participants were given a stress test where they had to do public speaking and then perform difficult calculations while unfriendly observers watched them. The participants were randomly assigned to have either a friend, a dog they didn’t know, or no one accompany them before and during the test. Their cortisol levels and heart rates were measured before, just after, and 30 minutes after the test, and they filled out questionnaires about their anxiety.

While everyone became more anxious during the test and showed higher heart rates and cortisol levels, those participants paired with a dog had lower levels of both than those with no support or even those with a friend. This suggests that being with a dog can help us recover from stressful situations—perhaps even the stress of a pandemic—even if it’s not our own dog (which may be why so many colleges bring canines onto campuses during finals week).

For those who can’t have a pet, there is some evidence that just seeing videos of dogs can reduce stress and anxiety. That probably explains why many of us turn to cute puppy (and cat) videos for relief.

3. Dogs help us get along with others

While many of us are seeing our friends on Zoom and in other physically distanced ways during the pandemic, it can be hard to feel truly connected. And, as the quarantine drags on, it may be harder to get along with the people we live with, too—like our partners and our children.

But there is evidence that having a dog around can improve our ability to connect with other people. For example, one study found that in the presence of a dog, people acted more trusting, friendly, and cooperative. Although this study was done in a work group, the same might be true for those of us working and living together in tight spaces, too.

Another study found that when someone is out and about with a dog, people consider them to be more approachable than someone without a dog. And, if people walking a dog “accidentally” drop some coins in the street, they are more likely to be helped by a stranger.

This is something Jan noticed during her quarantine outings. “Maisie prods me out of the house for walks around our neighborhood, where she invariably provokes friendly (socially distanced) interactions with friends and strangers alike.”

It’s nice to know dogs can act as a kind of social glue. In another study, researchers randomly surveyed people in the U.S. and Australia, asking them how much they interacted with their neighbors. The findings revealed that pet owners (in the U.S., at least) were significantly more likely to know people in their neighborhoods, while dog owners in particular were more likely to consider a neighbor a friend and to feel socially supported by their neighbors.

Given that so many of us are limited to our neighborhoods or, possibly, dependent on neighbors for help during the pandemic, dog ownership may give us a slight advantage when it comes to connecting with those around us.

4. Dogs keep us healthier

All of these advantages—being less lonely, less stressed and anxious, and more connected to others—also tend to make us healthier. And there is direct evidence that dog owners experience a variety of health benefits.

                                              

For example, one study found that people who acquired a dog reported fewer minor health problems and rated themselves as healthier than non-pet owners, up to 10 months later. Another study found that dog owners live longer and that pet owners make fewer annual doctor visits than non-owners, even after considering gender, age, marital status, income, and other health-related factors.

A review of multiple research studies found that pet owners had significantly lower heart rates, arterial pressure, and systolic blood pressure, suggesting better cardiovascular health. Some of this may have to do with the fact that most dogs need to be walked, and so people who own dogs tend to walk more. But there are probably other pieces to the puzzle.

It could be that adopting a needy animal confers its own benefits, as doing good deeds tends to make us happier and healthier. Interestingly, during COVID-19, there has been an increase in the number of people willing to foster a pet, in part because more people are working from home and can therefore accommodate a pet’s needs more easily.

It’s clear that what we receive from dogs in love and care comes back to us a hundredfold. Perhaps, if we want to get through the pandemic in better mental and physical health, it wouldn’t hurt to have a dog around.

By Jill Suttie | August 26, 2020

three tips for happier dogs

Three tips from my book, Wag: The Science of Making Your Dog Happy.

By Zazie Todd, PhD

When I was writing my book, Wag: The Science of Making Your Dog Happy, I wanted to make it as practical as possible. So I included a set of tips at the end of every chapter (except chapter one).

Three of those tips are shown in these graphics.

Tip no. 73 is: If your dog has a behavior problem, don't use punishment. It does not teach your dog what to do instead of the problem behavior, and it interfere's with the dog's feeling of safety.

Tip no 7 is: Give the puppy a choice, encourage (don't force) them, and protect a shy puppy. Remember that socialization means giving your dog happy, positive experiences.

As you can tell from the numbers, there are many such tips in the book!

Tip no 36 is: Understand that you're important to your dog. Your presence can give your dog the confidence to explore new things, and your dog will look to you for information when presented with a new or stressful item.

These tips have been very popular on social media.

At the end of the book, there is a checklist that will help dog owners see where they are already doing well. and maybe help them think about whether there is anything else they or their dog might like to try. If you've completed the checklist, I would love to know what you found out from it.

If you want to get a copy, you'll find more information about Wag here along with links to buy (including from your local indie).

Zazie Todd, PhD, is the best-selling author of Wag: The Science of Making Your Dog Happy. She is the founder of the popular blog Companion Animal Psychology, where she writes about everything from training methods to the human-canine relationship. She also writes a column for Psychology Today and has received the prestigious Captain Haggerty Award for Best Training Article in 2017. Todd lives in Maple Ridge, BC, with her husband and two cats.  [what no dogs?]

Playing with your dog

Many strong opinions exist about the “Do Nots” of playing with dogs. While I agree with some of these prohibitions, there are three common dog play “don’ts” that are myths. Before I get into the myths, I want to mention a few real worries that do exist.

Wrestle Play and Teasing: I do stand by the ban on rough-and-tumble wrestle play between dogs and humans and the teasing that often accompanies it. Though wrestle play betwen dogs and humans can be fun, the high emotional arousal that results often leads to a lack of inhibition, and that’s when trouble can happen, even to nice dogs and to nice people.

The play styles used in wrestle are also used in serious fights and predation. Rough play is typically okay for play between dogs but can create real danger with people. When you (or your nephew or the little girl who lives next door) are down on the ground with your face next to an excited predator with dangerous weapons in her mouth, bites can happen. Serious bites could happen, even if the dog has never bitten before. All too often, I’ve seen shocked and devastated families crying in my office, and I don’t want it to happen to anyone else.

Chasing Dogs: I’m also opposed to people chasing dogs, preferring to let dogs chase people instead. If you chase your dog, you risk teaching your dog that moving toward her means the game is afoot, making her more likely to run away even when you approach her for another reason. This can ruin your dog’s recall.

Chasing your dog can also lead to injury if your dog charges away from you into the street or other unsafe area. There’s no denying that letting a person chase a dog can be a great reinforcement for the dog, but I only approve this game for dogs who are so well-trained that the person can stop the game at any time and successfully call the dog to come.

Dog Play Myths

I disagree with the following advice on how to play with your dog:

Myth #1: Don’t mix Dog training and play.

Not true! It’s actually great to incorporate play into dog training sessions. The best dog training occurs when the dog views an activity as a game rather than a lesson. Using chase games to teach recalls, playing follow to build a base for heeling, using tug to practice “take it” and “drop it,” and practicing stays with “find it” games or hide-and-seek are all great ways to blend training and play. Additionally, play is reinforcing, so playing with your dog may be better than the best treat.

Myth #2: Only young dogs need to play.

Not true! A small percentage of animal species play at all, and even fewer play beyond childhood. Dogs and people remain playful into adulthood, which may partially explain why we’ve been best friends for thousands of years. Many older dogs stop playing only because they no longer have buddies to play with. Keep playing with your dog well into old age. It’s part of what makes them dogs and us human!

Myth #3: Don’t play tug with Your Dog.

Most importantly, I disagree with this prohibition (at least for most dogs). Many people advise against playing tug, which is a shame because so many dogs adore it. Tug is a great game, and dogs can learn a lot from playing it. Many trainers share this view and actually teach tug in puppy classes. The earlier dogs learn the lessons that tug has to offer such as impulse control, mouth control and cooperation as well as skills like “take it” and “drop it,” the safer and more fun the game becomes.

For a long time, experts advised against playing tug with dogs for fear that it would create or increase aggressiveness in dogs. Later, tug was considered fine for most dogs as long as they were not allowed to “win” by keeping the toy at the end. The concern was that it would have bad consequences for her to feel she had just triumphed over the person.

A scientific study by Rooney and Bradshaw addressed this issue. They found that “winning” the toy in a game of tug had no impact on the relationship of the human-dog pair. Based on their research, though, we should still be thoughtful about letting certain dogs keep the toy after a tug game. The most playful dogs in the study exhibited significantly higher amounts of playful attention-seeking behavior when they were allowed to “win.” Therefore, it may be better not to allow those dogs who become relentlessly pushy about seeking more play time to “win” at tug.

Of course, for a few dogs, tug is a bad idea. Dogs who are prone to aggression induced by high arousal are not good candidates for it. The same warning applies to dogs with poor bite inhibition or poor self-control as well as those who tend to creep up the toy with their mouths during tug. Additionally, it may exacerbate resource-guarding behavior in dogs who already exhibit it.

For most dogs though, tug has many benefits. It is interactive and requires cooperation between humans and dogs. It can give dogs exercise and help them stretch their bodies prior to other activities such as running or agility. Tug can effectively rev up an agility dog for maximum success on the course. It helps many dogs learn better mouth control in general.

With so many “Do nots” on how to play with dogs, the most important may be this: Do not spend so much time worrying about playing with your dog that you don’t have time to actually play with her.

Article first appeared in The Bark, Issue 60: Jun/Jul/Aug 2010